Can Guys and Girls Be Just Friends?

Went out clubbing with a good friend of mine this weekend. I don't do this often but I have days when I just want to be in a room full of strangers with loud music and just get lost in the crowd. To achieve this I go clubbing, I know the are people who might argue sayig its a poor choice but so far it works for me.Ok let me get to what I really want to talk about,can girls and guys just be friends? no strings attached,no benefits just good friends. I think this has been debated so many times and different people have different takes on this but it all boils down to individuals really.

I have this male friend, I 've known him for years, we get along like a house on fire. This is the same friend I went clubbing with, we can talk for hours on the phone, stay up until morning talking about everything under the sun. I am very comfortable around him, I don't mind his stories about other girls/girlfriends. I don't have to second guess his intentions when he touch me.We hold hands,make remarks about each others' weight, looks I mean everything-I am not paranoid about what he means when he says this or that. If you had seen us at the club you would swear we are a couple,we are that comfortable with each other.To be honest I don't have this with anyone except for my gay friends(yes I do share the gospel with them-thank you). You see he is straight I mean very straight. Do we ever fight? well not really, we have disagreements and we have a mature way of handling such-lolling "mature way"! In the past we have just stoped talking with each other just to cool off then carried on when we both good,now that is mature-lolling again.

Do thoughts of us being more than friends ever cross my mind seeing that we get along so well. Ill be lying if I say no, but you see I will like to think what we have is special and a relationship will spoil everything. People fight in relationships and they never want to talk with each other again. I love him too much to want to risk that, I want him around for many more years. So ya I think its achievable for guys and girls to just be friends. I used to joke with him saying when we are both tired of the dating game and still have not found what we looking for we will just hook up but for now we are both happy with the way things are. If when you come to earth your dad is a rich property investor who keeps a low profile on his riches then you will know mommy has made babies with the so called friend and that this whole entry is invalid. So watch this space mommy is still young and trying to figure it all out!