I wonder if its time for one to get married.......?

I love being SINGLE honestly speaking I LOVE IT! Maybe its because I don't know any better, my mom says its because I have not met "the one". Her view is debatable really cause I think I have.It was/is just complicated. A friend of mine seems to think I like extremes that they fascinate me, my sister on the other hand says I enjoy the chase too much. I just saw the man I once loved on facebook (after a long time)  and for the first time in my life I wonder if its not time to at least consider marriage. He is married with children and he looks OK not that I ever wanted an OK life but seeing him made me wonder! Maybe I'll never get married, how come I don't yearn for it like other people do? I always see myself married in the future but NEVER now, is that even normal? But then again who makes the rules right? If  things where not so complicated between I and the man I've loved for so long maybe just maybe I'll be married(he will laugh if he where to read this). Ever since I was a little girl right until now I have always said that the Lord will bless me with marriage but for one reason or the other I just never feel like its time.At times I blame it on the attention I get from the opposite sex and my lack of dealing with it correctly! The fact that I don't take some of them as serious as I should or I choose to just not get involved or worse keep them hanging which in turn keeps me hanging. Lets just hope for my sake and yours,your grandma is right on this one.